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Choose Better Over Bitter

 Choose Better Over Bitter   A bitter woman says “all men are the same” A wise woman decides to stop choosing the same kind of men”.   I understand the “bitter” woman mentality. I have given chances, acquiesced, compromised and overlooked. I have been patient and tried not to trip. I have stifled my feelings and suppressed my voice because I didn’t want to be a “bitter” woman. But it gets hard. Hard to overlook your nonchalant attitude, your I should be thankful you gave me time mentality. I have simply had enough. And before I become that bitter woman you have already tried to frame me as, I will protect my own value and walk away, wish you well and know that even being alone is better than being treated like I have no value. I won’t allow you to treat me like my willingness to meet you where you are made me compromise and you see it as a weakness you could abuse. I am not your pick me up toy. I am a prize! Sadly, one you will never appreciate the value of, because you are con