I pray you never wonder what you need to fix.
I pray you never wonder what you need to fix. The other day, I came across a post that said “ I pray my daughter never wonders what she has to fix for a man to love her”. It made me reflect on an encounter I had this summer with my Ex-Husband. If I had to describe what I felt most it would be acceptance and peace. It was a similar scenario albeit a terrible situation for our daughter. Seeing him in person for the first time since 2019, finally had no effect on me. He was a person I shared children with. The life we shared together, now seemed to be irrelevant. The old longing for him to change has long since subsided. I saw through him. I focused on maintaining my calm and on the matter that brought us together. Our child’s crisis. In this moment, nothing was more important than to show up for her. Be present and supportive and to remove myself from the situation. This was no easy task with what seemed like a determination to trigger me, or was it being in a space with a