One Year Ago

 



One Year Ago

 

It’s been one year since my Book Launch for “Life Lessons: Journey to My Dopeness”.  I have had the opportunity to have some speaking opportunities and was a participant in a Book Tour for my organization. I have had wonderful opportunities to discuss my journey and encourage other women to walk their paths and embrace what knowledge we gain along the journey.

 

One of the key thoughts I have is the importance of embracing the journey, learning from the journey and growing through the journey. I have grown in a year. The launch was a rebirth for me, it was 6 months to the day past my birthday on February 15th.  In this past year, I have had some ups and some downs, but I have been steadfast on my journey to protecting my peace and enjoying life as it is.

 

I find myself more comfortable in who I am. No matter what space I am in I continue to embrace the value of self-love. I find solace in being happy with who I am. As my journey continues, I will be committed to being Determined to love myself.  Owner of my uniqueness. Persevering through adversities. Emphatic about my peace walk.

 

Today is a new day to refocus. Moving forward with learning in the journey. It is a new day to shake off negativity and make peace the vibe I flow in.  Life is too short to stress and have negative energy in my space.

 

I am thankful for my village. I am grateful how this past year has enlightened me on who my village truly is. I have had a wonderful summer spending time with the people I love and who allow me to be my unique self. I appreciate the lessons this past year has taught me. I love this Dope space I am in. I am Loving, Empowered, Focused and Determined.  The journey continues.

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